merry christmas everyone...
natal taon ini.. huffff bersamaan dengan gue mengalami kekecewaan yg teramat amat sangat ...
kalo gue bisa tereak depan mukanya "go to hell bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@#!$!"
kalo gue bisa memaki dan berteriak..
tapi gue lebih milih diam n menangis dalam hati tsahhhh bahasa guwe...
gpp gue uda biasa kok
duh kok jd mellow gue?
sebenernya gue pengen nulis blog dr maren2, tp semangat nulis blog guwe lagi lagi kalah dengan kemarahan terpendam gue...
tadinya pas natal gue uda males ke gereja, berhubung hati gue sedang pahit dan kecewa, ke gereja jg percuma menuh2in ruangan gereja, mending bangku buat gue kasih ke org laen aja
hihihih lagian gereja gue ibadah natalnya d istora senayan.. beuh kebayang ga sih ramenya n capenya??
pas siang2 mao bobo siang, gue ditelpon...
xxx: mao gereja ga? ada tiket VIP nih.. mayan kan ga harus duduk d tribun, kalo mao dijempud jem 3 an siap2 kan mulai gereja jem 5
me: hmmm hmm "cengo dot com" bingung guwe
xxx: uda ayo buruan kapan lagi vip
me: ya uda deh
n jadi deh gue ke gereja
o iya ada delonnnnn
delonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn kamoe ganteng sekaliii.. semoga nanti kalo akoe menikah n hamil muka anakku seganteng kamu, n bisa seberuntung kamu menjadi indonesian idol 2020
hiahihaihiahahihahaihiahiahahihaa
merry christmas everyone .. d luar cuaca mendung habis hujan, membuat saya semakin malas untuk bekerja karena terserang holiday syndrome
Friday, December 28, 2007
Friday, December 14, 2007
Do you think you're a Nice guy that gets dumped by women a lot?
bole copas neh...
hihihih
yg berasa nice guy.. bener ga nih artikel yak???
Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like shit, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.
Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".
They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.
Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherintly unlovable anyways?"
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!
Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.
This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".
Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.
You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.
hihihih
yg berasa nice guy.. bener ga nih artikel yak???
Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like shit, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.
Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".
They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.
Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherintly unlovable anyways?"
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!
Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.
This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".
Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.
You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
new year resolution
wah ga berasa dah masuk desember....
uda mo natal, mo ganti tahun lagi, ingetin guwe ama digit umur guwe yg makin nambah
uda mulai make krim2 ajaib tiap malem sambil merhatiin d sudut2 wajah, apa uda mulai muncul tuh kerutan2 penuaan? IKHHHHH....
ga sengaja kemaren gue baca2 postingin gue d awal2 taon..
ada lucunya, ada sedihnya...
sampe d postingan gue tentang resolusi 2007 gue, gue cm punya 3 resolusi:
1. lulus s2 gue yg uda diambang DO
2. mo belajar forgive n forget soal pangeran tampan itu
3. kurusin badan *duh malu eike*
pujii Tuhan resolusi gue kecapai semua.... horeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
gue buat bikin resolusi d taon 2008 ini ahhh biar semangat dan punya tujuan dalam menjalani hari hari tsahhhhh bahasa gue tengil amir...
apa yak buat 2008?
1. cari kantor baru yg lebih baik, tentu yg gajinya lebih gede dr skrg, dapet bos yg kaga dongo n cm bisa buang body doank.. hihihih sarkasm mode on
2. nabung inda nabung, jgn sering2 make kartu jahanam itu
3. tetep kurusin badan lagi sampe kaya angelina jolie ahakkk ahakkk ahakkk
4. dilamar pitellll *ayoo ayoo pitel baca ini baca!!!! hihihihih*
skrg lg sibuk n semangat buat ngirim2 lamaran
mumpung blom merit, mumpung kaga dilarang pacar... mari cari kerja yg gajinya gede biar jem kerja gila2an selama gue ga sakit n bisa bagi waktu yah gue sih fine2 ajah
buat ngumpulin duit, buat menuhin cita2 gue jalan2 ke athena n mesir
mao nyusurin sungai nil bareng si keparato sanlai hihihihh
ayooo nabung yukkk *hihiih kaya slogan Bank Indonesia*
uda mo natal, mo ganti tahun lagi, ingetin guwe ama digit umur guwe yg makin nambah
uda mulai make krim2 ajaib tiap malem sambil merhatiin d sudut2 wajah, apa uda mulai muncul tuh kerutan2 penuaan? IKHHHHH....
ga sengaja kemaren gue baca2 postingin gue d awal2 taon..
ada lucunya, ada sedihnya...
sampe d postingan gue tentang resolusi 2007 gue, gue cm punya 3 resolusi:
1. lulus s2 gue yg uda diambang DO
2. mo belajar forgive n forget soal pangeran tampan itu
3. kurusin badan *duh malu eike*
pujii Tuhan resolusi gue kecapai semua.... horeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
gue buat bikin resolusi d taon 2008 ini ahhh biar semangat dan punya tujuan dalam menjalani hari hari tsahhhhh bahasa gue tengil amir...
apa yak buat 2008?
1. cari kantor baru yg lebih baik, tentu yg gajinya lebih gede dr skrg, dapet bos yg kaga dongo n cm bisa buang body doank.. hihihih sarkasm mode on
2. nabung inda nabung, jgn sering2 make kartu jahanam itu
3. tetep kurusin badan lagi sampe kaya angelina jolie ahakkk ahakkk ahakkk
4. dilamar pitellll *ayoo ayoo pitel baca ini baca!!!! hihihihih*
skrg lg sibuk n semangat buat ngirim2 lamaran
mumpung blom merit, mumpung kaga dilarang pacar... mari cari kerja yg gajinya gede biar jem kerja gila2an selama gue ga sakit n bisa bagi waktu yah gue sih fine2 ajah
buat ngumpulin duit, buat menuhin cita2 gue jalan2 ke athena n mesir
mao nyusurin sungai nil bareng si keparato sanlai hihihihh
ayooo nabung yukkk *hihiih kaya slogan Bank Indonesia*
Friday, December 07, 2007
ciehhh merit nii yeeeeee
gue denger kabar ...
kalo si mr. religius menikahhhh tgl 9 desember besok..
cieh cieh suwid suwidddd
menikah dengan si perempuan bijaksana n open minded
congratz yah,,. semoga sukses selalu.. sukses dalam segala hal..
dari kenal ampe merit cuma 8 bulan.. wah jd takjub ..
jd langsung bikin guwe narik2 piter sambil ngerengek2 "kawinin guwe juga donkkkk"
wkwkwkkwkwkwkkw
yah yang lewat biarlah lewat... semoga mereka bahagia n si mr. religius bisa lebih bijaksana dalam jalan yang bener hihihihh
congratz for both of u...
kalo si mr. religius menikahhhh tgl 9 desember besok..
cieh cieh suwid suwidddd
menikah dengan si perempuan bijaksana n open minded
congratz yah,,. semoga sukses selalu.. sukses dalam segala hal..
dari kenal ampe merit cuma 8 bulan.. wah jd takjub ..
jd langsung bikin guwe narik2 piter sambil ngerengek2 "kawinin guwe juga donkkkk"
wkwkwkkwkwkwkkw
yah yang lewat biarlah lewat... semoga mereka bahagia n si mr. religius bisa lebih bijaksana dalam jalan yang bener hihihihh
congratz for both of u...
Monday, December 03, 2007
2 hari penuh dengan siksaan
29.11.2007
Hufff hari ini en besok gue ga ngantor, gue ada trening di hotel bidakara…
Pagi2 gue ke kantor dulu, uda ngomel2 ma bagian general affair..
Dari kemaren gue disuruh ke kantor dulu, trus baru dianter sopir ke bidakara.. eh tau2nya gue malah disuruh naek taksi alasannya 3 in 1...
Ckkkk jedighhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!W#%$^$^%^*
Kenapa ga dari maren ajahhhhh...
............
Sopir taksinya bloonnnnnn... uda gue bilang salah tol, dia ngeyel
Akirnya gue naek tol yang terbalik arahnya... mustinya naek pluit turun d semanggi ah daerah2 sono deh
Eh malah dia naek yg arah tanjung priok, cawang.. jadi deh gue muterin tol dalem kota
N jadilah gue lagi ngelepotin pitel...
Gue nanya2 jalan via hp.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr gue mao ngamuk ma tuh sopirnya, tp itu d jalan tol, ntar kalo gue disuruh turun pan gue ndiri yg repot...
Jadi deh gue inhale xhale nahan gondok n gue bayar2 nya 103 rebet
Bayanginnnn lebih mahal daripada gue ke airport… omigoddddddddddddd
Emang sih materi nya risk management using excel
Tp ajubile ternyata excel tuh susah amirrrrr..
Selama ini make excel cm buat nambah, kurang, kali, bagi, ma buat kolom2
Ternyataaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. omigodddd susahnyaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Pucing2 akoeee...
Eh eh tapi begitu gue melihat ke sekeliling, gue ngeliat 1tim dari bank lain.. arrrghhh ada 3 yg cakeppppp... mayan deh bikin mata gue nge blink blink dikid, gaya2nya kaya F4 gitu
Uhuiii duduknya d depan guwe.. ah sayang ga d sebelah gue, kan gue bisa lebih semangat belajar, dari muka nya sih mereka juga ga ngerti pan bisa gue sok2 ajarin biar bisa kenalan xiixixixixixiixxixixix kecentilan mode on
Bawa2 cake hasil patungan ma pitel hihii
Surpriseeeee tanteeeee.....
Kecian pitel org rumah nya ga ada yg percaya kalo pitel ada andil d kue itu.. makanya pit jd org jgn kelewat cuekkkk.. giliran beneran beli cake ga ada yg caya kan xixixix
Jd dikira kue itu gue yg beli.. ya sudahlah gue cengar cengir tak dosa sajah....
Potong2 kue trus ngobrol2, emaknya membongkar aib2 nya pitel, pitel dengan tampang bete lgs narik2 tangan gue ngajak balik hueuhuee ya uda deh abis itu balik...
Happy bday tante yg ke 59..... smoga tambah bijak and semakin diberkati Tuhan di umur yang bertambah ini.. aminnn
30.11.2007
Lagi2 gue menghabiskan hari ini dengan training..
Duuhhh susah amir nih materinya
Ampe pusing kepala guwe mikirin nih rumus2 keparato..
Keknya terakir kale belajar serius d excel waktu kuliah d binus, kalo ga salah mata kuliahnya PPN deh.. uda brapa taonnn yang laluuuuu
Trus dari rumus2 excel itu dicombine ma software finance plus hitungan2 risk management...
Oh cakepppp bangedddd
Keknya rambut gue bisa berguguran nih kalo lama2 kek gini... ckkkkk
Hu hu hu hu hu
Mata gue dah 3 watt nih ngantuk pisannnnn
Tyus mereka lucu2, nanya ini itu ama guwe... tuker2an kartu nama dehhh
Bos gue tuh ribed die suka nge cek gue ada nambah koneksi nalan ga kalo miting ato trening kuar.. yah mayan deh tuh kartu nama supaya mulut bos guwe mingkem
Kwkwkkwkwkw.
o iya kayanya gue baru pertama kalinya miting ato training d hotel tp dikasi snack nya ubi rebus,...
ckkk ubiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii gile ajeh. jangan2 d belakang tuh hotel nanem ubi dulu xuixiixixix
kelar trening2 dikasi kata penutupan, bagi2 certificate, balik dah guwe langsung..... horeeeeeeeeeeee penyiksaan berakir...
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