MenGobati PatAH hAtI

Alamaaaa jayus bgt ntu judul posting gue 2dei....
gue nemu artikel yg kena bgt ke gue skrg ini, bole ngintip dari blog org sih... hihihih

MENGOBATI PATAH HATI DALAM 4 HARI
People may say no one ever died of a broken heart, but when you're suffering from one, it sure doesn't feel that way--at least initially. These suggestions may help you navigate the painfully troubled waters of a relationship that has ended.

Day 1
1. Breathe.
All you can do is survive this first and difficult day. Take one day at a time.
2. Give yourself permission to mourn. Call in sick at work, sleep all day, eat too muchice cream, sob.
3. Congratulte yourself for being human: It is only when you open yourself to love that your heart can break.
4. Develop and repeat a helpful mantra to get you through the initial shock and pain, such as "This too shall pass" or "I will survive."

Day 2
1. Reach out to a close friend or family member. It helps to share your thoughts withothers.
2. Watch a movie to distract yourself. Choose a comedy that has cheered you up in the past. Or watch a movie that's guaranteed to make you sob--it may surprise you howgood that feels.

Day 3
1. Force yourself to go out even if you are feeling despondent. Take yourself out for a cup of coffee or go on a long walk.
2. Express your emotions in a way that comes naturally. Write in a journal, paint, sculptor play music.
3. Do daily cardiovascular exercise--the endorphins will give your spirits an immediatelift.
4. Resist the urge to call your ex. Instead, write a letter. Don't mail it.
5. Go out of town for the weekend to distance yourself from the temptation to call yourex. Visit an old friend or go back home to your roots. A change of environment doeswonders for the spirit.
6. Put everything that reminds you of your ex in a box and seal it. Throw it away, donateit to charity or ask a friend to hold on to it indefinitely.

Day 4
1. Surround yourself with friends. This may mean reaching out to people you fell out oftouch with during the relationship.
2. Make lists to help you regain your confidence and identity: a list of your friends, ofthings you like, of what you want to accomplish in the next decade.
3. Spoil yourself: Get a new hairstyle, have a spa day or go shopping.
4. Resist the urge to call your ex.

kedengerannya sih gampang yah, cuma 4 ari, gue yg lebih dari seminggu aja kalo denger kabar yang tidak disengaja dari putri cantik mengenai pangeran tampan itu gue masi aja panas otak gue. pangeran tampan itu berusaha memperbaiki dan meyakinkan keluarga si putri cantik kalo dia benar adanya sang pangeran dari tempat antah berantah yang datang ke kota putri cantik itu untuk menyelamatkan sang putri, tp mengapa dengan cara menjelekkan dan menghancurkan nama gue???menghancurkan nama keluarga gue?
damn you!!!!!

bagi gue.. setelah gue pikirkan, setelah gue mengetahui kejadian ini, setelah gue tau kebenaran seperti apa sebenarnya harga diri sang pangeran tampan tersebut. bagi gue.. sang pangeran itu tak ubahnya seperti iblis yang dicerminkan dalam kitab suci, yang mempunyai sifat pembohong, perusak dan menghancurkan...

hei putri cantik... pangeran lo dah cukup menghancurkan hidup gue, tp gue akan kembali seperti gue yg dulu, gue yg dulu sebelum mengenal pangeran itu...
mungkin butuh waktu yang ga sebentar tp gue uda janji sama org2 yg gue sayank kalo gue pasti kembali... kasi gue waktu skrg ini untuk merenung, kasih gue waktu gue untuk sendiri..

gue jd inget omongan gue ke keluarga putri cantik tersebut....
"sperma emang ga punya otak, ovum juga ga ada otak, tp yang punya sperma n ovum itu punya otak kan?? tp emang sih sperma n ovum kalo ketemu bisa menghasilkan otak"
mereka semua tercengang dan menanyakan pendidikan gue...
gue jawab aja sorry ... gue lg ga pengen ngomong pake etika dan sopan santun, gue S2 di salah satu uni terbaik di indonesia... dan di S2 ga ada mata kuliah untuk mempertemukan ovum n sperma yg ga punya otak itu untuk menghasilkan otak...

dan akhirnya... di kalangan temen2 gue lg nge trend teori gue ttg ovum n sperma tsb... gila kekekekkeke

Gue juga mao ucapin selamat buat pangeran tampan dan putri cantik buat hari berbahagia mereka yang jatuh pada hari ini....
Congratulation for u.... hope u will be happy...

ucapan selamat yg jujur dari hati gue..
urusan kita gue harap selesai dan jangan ganggu hidup gue lagi...

Melamunlah. Bersedihlah. Susuri kenangan. Tapi udah, sampai di situ aja. Setelah itu berdiri tegak, berjalan mantap. Life goes on.